A common relationship mistake is assuming you know your partner’s thoughts and feelings, especially during difficulties. Instead of guessing, ask them directly. They know their feelings best. Clarifying prevents miscommunication and resentment.
Don’t expect your partner to read your mind. This is unrealistic, no matter how long you’ve been together. For example, giving the silent treatment, hoping they’ll decipher what’s wrong, is unlikely to work and can be frustrating. If you want them to know something, communicate directly, politely, and lovingly.
Another mistake is expecting a perfect relationship. Despite portrayals in media, no couple is perfect. Healthy relationships have disagreements. Unlike movies or fairy tales, the real work begins after the relationship starts. Relationships require continuous effort from both partners. They are a journey, not a destination. So, how do you know if he loves you? Look for consistent actions, open communication, and genuine effort to build a life together. Love isn’t about perfection, but about navigating imperfections together.
